i received a note from a tumblr who asked..
how does one keep it fresh, when a relationship has been long term?
you have to recall what initially brought the two of you together..and keep that playing on repeat.
the initial exhilarating sparkle, felt in the very beginning does change
so what do you do?
use your imagination.
have you christened every room in your house?
the kitchen table & the shower?
have you body painted her with her cosmetics & makeup brushes?
and photographed your art?
have you played with food? those day old whipped cream things from the bakery? plastic or old sheet on the floor…before you do.
have you used a remote control vibrator at a party?
go to the beach..if you’re near one..and find a secluded spot.
in other words..shake it up.
there are only so many positions you can go through..and yes, after awhile you both can begin to feel ’ sameness ‘
so that is where you let your imaginations take over..
and there are no limits..to what you both can share and think of.
and no, it doesn’t have to be trying to think of something exotic every single day..
but those little surprises..can be very sparkling.
the next time you are shaving..a simple ’ baby have you seen my razor?’
and when she comes into the bathroom..grab her..
whisper in her ear..’ time to shave you.’
and do it.
spur of the moment + an imagination = joy.